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I went shopping with Jexia today! I'd kind of gotten used to shopping on my own if it's things like clothes, shoes, etc, because although I love Tobermory dearly, he is not a fun shopping companion.

So, we met up, nattered some, I ogled the babies and X, started trawling through stores. (Her husband kid-wrangled.) And it was fun!

Score of the day: a $190 jacket for $30. Business-style jacket, that is - I've been wanting one, and struggling to find any that fit over my bust and button without looking a) ridiculously tight at the bust b) ridiculously loose at the stomach c) silly at the shoulders. And this one fits!! Also found a pair of jeans, which is nice, as my last ones succumbed to fat-girl-pants syndrome of chafing-through in the top of the thigh.

It was a lot of fun. Simple fun, yes, but it was just NICE wandering around clothing stores being vaguely girly. I haven't been shopping with another woman for a LONG time.

Having wandered the mall for several hours, and waved her off home when X was becoming difficult for M to wrangle (and then mall-wandering further, because it wasn't worth driving home then driving halfways back to go to work) I purchased a large takeaway of Chinese and transported myself to work.

Where I have to remain until 2am. Sigh...

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One of the things that I've been doing, like most bridezillas I suppose, is hunting up jewellery that I think I might want to wear for the wedding.

I've bought quite a lot.

In my defense, it has all been cheap; I love Etsy.

Two sets of earrings arrived in the post yesterday. One of them is frankly ENORMOUS, ridiculous as earrings but lovely when the dangly was detached from the posts and worn as a necklace.

The other is a set of elephant earrings, purchased in honour of my mother's elephant collection. I suspect that on the day, they may end up being worn somewhere on my person.


Admittedly, I'm a magpie and have always been a sucker for jewellery. Which is silly, really, as I rarely wear much. Today's quite extravagant for me, with the elephant earrings AND the necklace.

And yet, I've had two holes in my ears since I was old enough to be allowed to pierce them. I love having pierced ears, for reasons I can't verbalize, I love earrings, but usually I just wear plain old sleepers. There's just something nice about dangly pretties in the earlobes.

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Party!

May. 18th, 2009 11:28 pm
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Moose threw a birthday party on Saturday. The theme was "Game characters", and I went as Carmen Sandiego.

It was a fantastic night, there were loads of awesome costumes, lots of good people, an amazing cake, and Tobermory and I took home the Best Dressed Male (Hitman*) and Best Dressed Female prizes.

I wrote a seven page letter of burble to my grandmother tonight. I'm going to send it to her along with photos of the party, so that she feels like she's included. The burble isn't just about the party, it's about the house and the kittens and ... everything. Well, a cheerful everything, I don't include the bad bits, just a nice positive chatty natter that she can read and re-read, and photos she can show the nurses, and so on.

There was more I wanted to write about the party, but after talking to Mum tonight, I am feeling somewhat melancholic.

Nana is 80 now. She's not going to last too much longer. She's had her second major bowel obstruction in a few years (she is on some amazing drugs for it right now), and she's far too frail for surgery. Assuming she would actually submit to going to hospital at all, which is far from certain.

She's had a good innings, and honestly her quality of life is slowly going down hill.

But I'll still miss Nana when she goes.

* I know I'm biased and all, but damn he looked good.

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While driving Pstyken home on Sunday, the car decided to develop a nasty whiiine. The whiiine developed into a hooowl, and then a graunch when trying to turn corners. I decided that this was likely an issue with the power steering, informed Tobermory of same, and we arranged to take it back to the garage from whence it came*. After all, it's only lived with us for a month...

I drove it in Tuesday morning (which was the soonest they could book it). I deliberately pulled in tightly, so that the maximum of horrible noises** could be arranged, and did the same while parking it. By the time I got out of the car, two salesmen and two managers had come haring over to find out what on earth was going on.

I politely explained that I was the young lady with the Ford with power steering troubles, and everything was yes ma'am, no ma'am, here is a Mazda 6 as a courtesy car ma'am. I had three of them arranging things - one chap finding insurance papers, one getting keys, general running about in my service. There was also the youngest salesman, who, on driving the car down to the service department, ran back up going "Man, what the HELL did you DO TO IT?" He was awarded death glares from his manager, and told in no uncertain terms to go fetch the Mazda for me. I was highly amused.

(Warranties are a lovely thing. It turns out the power steering pump had completely failed. )

Both Tobermory and I are still losing weight. Neither of us can entirely work out why, as we're not trying very hard - maybe we're eating better? Exercising more, having to run up and down the stairs at home? Sleeping sounder? Tapeworm? Anyway, this culminated in my need to buy a new pair of jeans, as my existing pair are a) two years old b) getting that dangerous white tinge at the seams and thin at the butt c) falling off. Owing to the weight loss, I have no idea what size my butt currently is. So, I took four pairs of jeans into the fitting rooms, and a very helpful young saleslady followed me. Knowing this is a fairly slim-cut line, I optimistically tried on the size of pants I usually buy at old-lady stores.

Her: "How do those look?"
Me: "Weird. I think they're too tight."
Her: *opens door, investigates* "Actually, they're a size too large. Here, try the..."
Me: "Uh, how do I put this. I am fat. There is no way I'll fit those."
Her: "You know how they say the customer is always right? Well, sometimes they're actually wrong, and please, try these on."
Me: *mutter grumble, shut door, change pants*
Me: *stare in mirror*
Her: *open door, grin* "See? Told you so!"

I bought the smaller size. They were $30 more than I intended to pay for a pair of jeans, but they're a skinny bitch line that I haven't been able to fit into since before I moved to Auckland. I'm feeling rather pleased with myself, in fact.


* Second hand car purchased from a dealership. We were hoping for good things, but this was the third trip back in a month!
** I was getting a lot of looks from passers-by on my way in. Apparently the nasty noises were worse from the outside of the car.

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The inlaws* leave in a week. I'm pleased to have met them, pleased that I get along with them (especially Tobermory's mum, she's absolutely lovely). But also pleased, in a probably selfish fashion, that they're going home. Eight weeks is quite a long time to have relative strangers in the home, especially when working and just trying to live normally.

The weather has also started packing up. It's gradually heading into hurricane season, and we're starting to get the bad storms marching through. So it's probably good that they're going home, before the rain really comes in.

It turns out that the house has no leaking issues, which is always good to know. The front door lets some water in when it's raining sideways, but you do kind of expect that with a door that isn't particularly weather or water proofed. Tobermory wants to replace it, and that doesn't seem like a terrible idea.

The garage doors rattle in the wind. This is only really irritating if you're one of the guests sleeping downstairs, such as the inlaws, who have been stuffing newspaper in the hinges at night to deal with the incessant doing.... doing....

I've also discovered that my newly-adopted shortish haircut is going to prove problematic throughout the winter. It tends to be windy, and walking into work this morning I resembled Cousin It after a run-in with a lawnmower. I'm going to have to buy a hat**. My beloved laughed immoderately at me about this.

It's been pleasant having visitors, but I will also be pleased to return to the pleasant humdrum of our own life.

Also, when Tobermory's dad is home, i can get kitties.


*Yes, I know we're not actually married yet, thus they're not actually the inlaws, but what else could I call them?
** I also found a winter coat in a second-hand shop. It was actually for a costume party (which admittedly isn't till May), it cost me $15 and it's a glorious red knee-length coat.

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Jam!

Jan. 24th, 2009 02:47 pm
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It has been a good day. The sun is shining, I've done four? possibly five? loads of laundry, and made jam. Much, much jam. One of the things I took up after moving in here was making jam. I don't remember what triggered the interest, but I enjoy it, the results are tasty, and neither of those dissuade me from doing it more...

Today, I have made twenty one jars of jam. I have mint and apple jam, banana nut jam, and peach and apricot jam.

I already have plans for the mint and apple jam (moroccan inspired food), the banana nut jam is extremely tasty on toast or warmed and drizzled over vanilla icecream. Tobermory chews his way through the stuff at an amazing speed (apparently he likes it) so I made a double batch today. Eleven jars, in fact. And the young chap at work begged a jar, when I was talking about making it during the week, so I'll take one along to him.

I was also discussing my jam-making plans in IRC, and it inspired a bit of silliness which amused me greatly.

[MahalWurk] I have seven kilos of sugar in the pantry.
[MahalWurk] And much much fruit.
* MahalWurk will has fun.
* MahalWurk also praise the label maker.
[TheWatcher] ... that sounds like some kind of strange cult's mantra.
[Half] Oh most mighty maker of labels, we praise your name and join your unending hymn, but chiefly are we bound to praise you for the gift of knowing one thing from another, without which we would wander from place to place, asking "Verily, be this the True Jam?"




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We're gradually getting into the routines for our home. The laundry mostly all gets done when it's needed, the vacuuming is an endless task, and there's still one bathroom which needs a monster scrubdown.

I had a domestic fit, and made jam and chutney a couple of weeks ago. It's tasty, and disappearing quite rapidly. It seems Tobermory concurs with the "tasty" assessment.

The gardens are finally being tackled; we're removing plants we don't like, or have grown leggy in their months of abandonment. Nothing too major, just a good clean and tidyup. We'll consider major changes next year.

Tobermory bought a lawnmower, shortly after I'd paid someone else to give the lawns their first trim. Right now it needs a cut again, but that's a standard side-effect of summer.

And I'm pleased, because summer is here. I have one week left at work before a two-week vacation; it's bright outside, glorious weather, and I've already started to lose my usual summer weight.

This year is slightly different than the preceding five, in that I'd been losing weight through the winter as well. When I go into stores to buy clothes, I keep picking things up that are one size too big, trying them on, wondering why they fall off, then suddenly remembering that I'm a little smaller now. I've had to buy two new belts.

My immediate boss has left. There are no plans to replace him, presumably for budgetary reasons. This does leave me with the most interesting prospect of being able to sneak in a promotion. I've spoken with the next-manager-up-the-line, who is only too happy to delegate some of OutgoingBoss's role. We'll see how it plays out, probably in the New Year.

I did say, when we discussed it, that I'd about hit my limit on how much helpdesk I could take. He laughed; apparently, they manage to keep competent staff for about two years, before they either get promoted internally or move on to better roles with other companies. They'd been watching me, and waiting for me to jump ship. They'll be quite pleased if, with Boss's departure, they end up keeping me via giving me (some of) his job.

I'm still cautious. I'd like the opportunity, but I'm watching the job market as well.

For now, though, I'm just pleased it's summer. It's warm, the sunshine is glorious, our home is lovely (albeit a bit messy right now) and I am content.

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Last night, I curled into bed, and started coughing. Uncontrollably, unstoppably, miserably coughing. Feverish, chilly, tired – and every time I started to relax a little, I coughed again. Painfully.

The night became rather a blur, in the end, of coughing and being miserable. I coughed more-or-less non-stop until about midnight. I was feverish. I ended up crying.

This is me. Stubborn, independent, bolshey. I don’t do that when I’m sick, I soldier on. Thus how I’ve gone to work at all in the last week. For me to cry, I must have been miserable indeed.

I don’t even remember all of it.

It took till 4am for me to have coughed up enough lung-goop to be able to sleep properly.

This morning, I visited the GP. I have a lung infection, and inflamed sinuses. I’m on strong doses of antibiotics for 10 days. I’m off work for, at minimum, another 3 days.

Sigh.

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The Huge Pile of Boxes in the lounge of Mum’s place is now about half the size.

There is now a Huge Pile of Newspaper and Empty Cardboard Boxes in my flat. Waiting for paper collection day. Note to self: Find out when paper collection/trash day is. This will be a Good Thing to Know.

So. I’m half moved. And the stuff that isn’t yet moved, I know where it’s going. I had great fun pottering about, pulling stuff out of boxes, working out what I needed to do with it all.

However, the hilarity of the weekend – at least, the hilarity not related to me realizing I had no bog roll – was mostly related to the local branch of the Feline Tenant Brainwashing and Welcoming Committee. See, I awoke at 5.30am Sunday. Lord only knows why. So, pootled around a little, nattered on the phone to a friend – blessed timezones, if I should be sleeping and can’t, others are most likely awake – and then got up and toddled round a bit, going “Meh, rain”.

My bedroom windows are at the outside groundlevel. (Basement flat.) So, I’m leaning on my window ledge. And a very enthusiastic black furry gentleman noticed my presence, came BOUNDING over to the window, issuing “It is RAINING and I am WET, lemme in!!” noises. So, one gorgeous black boy inside, lots of purry noises.

And then, he saw my Tigie (an ENORMOUS stuffed toy). And did the whole Puffball move, complete with hissing noises, and bounded out the window again. Me, I collapsed on the floor in giggles. Especially as, less than a minute later, he was sitting – at the other end of my flat – at my door going “Meer, it’s wet, lemme in!!!!”

Two hours later, Blackie had trundled off on a Catly Mission of Importance. I was poodling round the kitchen, contemplating food. The rain had since cleared and then restarted rather violently. And there was an outbreak of “MEER MEER it is RAINING, meer meer DOOROPENNOW”. A refined, but frantic, ginger beastie Wanted In Right Now, Thankye. Said ginger beastie also pottered round my flat – and also took large exceptions to the Tigie.

Made my day. I think I’m going to be happy here.

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I came home today to find a wealth of Good Things in my mailbox. Stockings (six pairs), my TSC tshirt (I’ve had my quota of stupid for today, please call someone else).

In fact, it’s generally been a good day. Half of work was absent (acts of drunkeness occuring – thanks St Paddy’s Day), so I got work done. Despite the stultifying boredom. Cyclenut contacted me during the day to ask for a website in a Hurry – Father needs something for school cycling – which is just fine as I still have the code leftover from my last attempt at creating a website for him. So, with a few hours work to incorporate some of the Useful Stuff I’ve learned over the last few months, that’ll be done this weekend. And, therefore, some extra money in the kitty.

Lunch was had with WebBoss on Thursday. This was also a Good Thing, as I am still lacking sufficient information about the state of my impending new job! Discussion covered: What I’ll be doing for a job, what I’ll get to help me do the job, and what I’ll be required to do.

So, from April, little Emma will be doing server administration. Basic “Stuff fallen over, fix it”. Create and start maintaining a backup schedule. (I know, I know – they need one already!) Create and maintain a Subversion/Trac box. (This is also a Very Good Thing, with programmers living all over the country. I know of five physical cities, and that doesn’t allow for the fact that we’re scattered around within those cities.) Learn about VMware – WebBoss has plans to be running all servers as VM servers in the long run, for redundancy and stuff.

They’ll give me hardware to be used at home (this is a Big Yay, as it means I’m not dependent on my home machine). Possibly more than one machine, depends what I’m doing at the time. (Note to self, acquire two desks instead of one.) I’ll be working 40 hours a week, but to be done as glide time – eg, if something takes a big poopy at 10pm and I can fix it, I am to do so, and take some time off later in the week, or save up hours and take a week off later. I’ll mostly be working from home, but also at co-location facility (10km away) occasionally. So will have keys to the co-lo, access to server racks, and so on and so forth.

No word on when I get the extra 2k, which is a tad sad, as moving will be tight – doable, but tight – but at least I know it is forthcoming.

I am a happy Emma.

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